We are often asked, why doesn’t the man get a turn to vent his frustrations in the masculine/feminine state exercise? Here is why: The masculine role is to imitate Christ. The way that God won the heart of humanity was to take the blame for our sin. He did this, not because it was his fault, but for the sake of having a relationship of love with us. He did it to save the relationship.
In human terms, the man is called to do this in his own relationship. When he listens without fighting back, he absorbs the responsibility for the problems in the relationship, not because they are his fault, but because he desires to carry them for his partner. This makes him not the guilty one, but the saviour of the relationship.
As a man, there is no greater gift you can give your partner than to carry this weight. When you do this you sacrifice your time, your own grievances, your pride and your life. She, bearing witness to this sacrifice, falls in love.
Nobody pretends it is easy. Even Christ asked for a way out and was told – there is no other way to win her heart.
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