Sex Goals

When we got married, we were each the only sexual parter either of us had experienced (still are). We had high hopes for our sexual experiences together. Unfortunately these hopes died within the first few days of our honeymoon and were left dormant for many years while we floundered around in our marriage. (If you’ve missed it, you can read about our story here).

But since we awakened passion in our lives again, the hopes began to rise. I am thrilled to be ticking off some of these long-term sex goals (some have been achieved, some are still to come).

How many of these have you experienced with your partner?

• Enjoying initiating sex and foreplay
• Orgasm
• Simultaneous orgasm
• Multiple orgasms
• Making love more than once in the same evening
• Making love at least once a week consistently
• Making love at least twice a week consistently
• Making love more than 3 times in the one week
• Orgasming just by the pressure of his pubic bone during penetration
• Orgasming without imagining a different experience/partner in my head
• Experiencing prolonged duration of pleasure leading up to orgasm
• Telling each other out loud what we’re enjoying (in sexy voices)
• Experiencing the feeling of our two hearts leaving our chests and uniting as one, post-orgasm (less romantically known as significant oxytocin release).
• Having him make love to me straight away on impulse in an unusual location without waiting to get somewhere appropriate first.
• Be comfortable and be able to enjoy receiving oral sex
• Be comfortable and able to enjoy giving oral sex
• Be able to request oral sex
• Fall asleep naked in his arms (without either of us getting up to go to the bathroom first!)

What sex goals do you have that are not on this list?

What better way to spice up your marriage than by choosing and focusing on a new sex goal together?

So what have we been doing to get past our sex problems and start kicking goals?

How about a program that allows her the space and skills to mentally and emotionally prepare for love-making and also provides you both with weeks and weeks of scientifically researched couples exercises you can do together to get into reaching these intimacy goals?

Check out our program ‘Wild Love’. It starts out as a cognitive/emotional program for women and ends up with the sexual connection you’ve always dreamed of!