When we make love, it can be a natural way for our partner to become more in-tune with us. Our default in relationships is often to try and feel connected by making the other person think and feel more like ourselves. As you may have noticed, this usually achieves the opposite. When men try toContinue reading “Make Love, Not War”
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Now we don’t feel in love anymore
A week or so ago I had so many words! They just kept coming and coming. I started to think to myself “I sound like I’m crazy! Tim must be really getting sick of hearing about this.” So I stopped sharing about how I was feeling. Fast forward a few days and I’m cranky, lashingContinue reading “Now we don’t feel in love anymore”
Grow a wild love!
In the first 10 years of our relationship, I thought I knew everything there was to know about my partner. He was caring, shy, helpful, practical, nerdy, weak and pathetic. As all the resentment built up in our relationship, I made beliefs about who he was based on how his behaviour felt to me. And,Continue reading “Grow a wild love!”
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