How long would it take to fix my relationship?

Two questions I was asked by two sincere, honestly searching mums really got me thinking. “How long would it take to fix my relationship?” asked a recently-separated mum of small children, honestly trying to evaluate whether or not the war she knew would ensue if she tried would be profitable and worth the further sacrificeContinue reading “How long would it take to fix my relationship?”

What to do When He says ‘No’.

“So, honey, how many square metres do you think our block is?” I began. Tim turned around and saw the building contract spread out in front of me. “NO!” he exclaimed emphatically, “I’m not doing that now!” “I’m doing my thing.” The building contract. We’re so close. He knows. He even told me he wasContinue reading “What to do When He says ‘No’.”

I need ACTION, not talk!

In 2013 I had been married 8 years. I had a carpenter husband, but was living in a one-bedroom apartment that he would not extend. He wasn’t very interested in sex, it didn’t matter what I did, or how often I asked him what he liked, he could tell me nothing. He stopped kissing me.Continue reading “I need ACTION, not talk!”

A Man’s Ultimate Sacrifice

We are often asked, why doesn’t the man get a turn to vent his frustrations in the masculine/feminine state exercise? Here is why: The masculine role is to imitate Christ. The way that God won the heart of humanity was to take the blame for our sin. He did this, not because it was hisContinue reading “A Man’s Ultimate Sacrifice”